Our Hotwives

coastalkid wrote: ↑

Mon Feb 24, 2025 10:51 am

stonemtncouple wrote: ↑

Mon Feb 24, 2025 9:56 am

Yes, I know only one wife who enjoys watching her husband enjoy other women as much as her own pleasure. Her husband is very well endowed 10” coke can cock and I believe she enjoys watching other woman “struggle” to suck him and take him inside their pussys. When she does witness another woman really enjoying her husband she gets a wide grin and big smile on her face. I’ve seen real joy in her eyes watching her husband please other women.
Only wife I know who feels this way. Most Hotwives are jealous.

This has always been the most peculiar dichotomy to me and a huge mental struggle for me personally. I know it's completely true to say I don't understand because I'm not in the lifestyle. Just like I can't tell you anything about skydiving from anything other than a conceptual standpoint. That's why I have always sought out people to help me understand why "compersion" is a one way street and why it's expected and accepted that a wife should naturally be jealous.

Since I can only imagine this from my own set of experiences, like a child, I can only ask "why"? In my own marriage my wife and I have always put the other first. She's not the sexual animal I would like her to be. She herself has admitted she knows that. To her credit she has made a verifiable effort to change that. In every other way we always want the other to feel satisfied and happy and make a great effort to focus on that. I know I'm loved!

This is where my brain short circuits! If a couple has that kind of love for each other and a wife clearly knows she is getting more out of a situation than her husband where does the "compersion" go? If wife was having the absolute best sexual experience because of her husband why wouldn't the opposite naturally happen? Aren't the inherent risks the same? Why is it expected and accepted that only the husband should risk his wife "falling in love" with someone? Why wouldn't a grateful wife arrange a mind blowing sexual experience for her husband to express her love for him?

I get tired of reading about wives that torment and torture their husbands, even if it's asked for. I just find it unbelievable that wives can easily slip in and out of character and be uncaring, unrelenting and selfish, then turn around and be a loving devoted wife in the snap of fingers! Whether I'm "cut out" for being in this lifestyle is of no consequence. The fact remains that very few have been able to explain this.

TDhotwife wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 27, 2025 8:09 am

My wife has fallen deeply in love with her boyfriend of 17 years. She tells me she loves me and would never leave but her boyfriend owns her and her body and he is first when it comes to lovemaking. Once a week I get to watch them make love. I admit it is a beautiful site and I am blown away with her sensual lovemaking and my wifes 10 plus orgasms. One up side is they let me video there lovemaking and I do routinely masturbate while watching the videos. My wife also has another day a week where she goes to him straight after work and has dinner and spends the night with him. Her boyfriend is 10 years younger than her and is fit, large cock, really knows how to satisfy a woman and he also tells her that he loves her too. He takes her to sex clubs at least once a month and they have a life with other people that know them as a couple. My wife and I used to have sex at least 4 times a week but since she as taken him, two of our days have been given to him. When we do have sex (twice a week) she is naked and gives me passionate kisses while I masturbate to orgasm. Once in a blue moon, with her boyfriend's suggestion, she lets me enter her. When she has an orgasm with me (very rarely) I ask who she was thinking of and it is always her boyfriend. I do love the brutal honesty and knowing about where I stand and her love for him. I tell her the total honesty is the only way this can work and she has been giving me this. She has told me that on our upcoming vacation to the Bahamas her boyfriend is coming and she will only be making love and sleeping with him for this week. I can still video and clean up. I could never have envisioned her having a relationship like this but my compersion is overwhelming and it works for us.

TDhotwife wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 27, 2025 8:09 am

My wife has fallen deeply in love with her boyfriend of 17 years. She tells me she loves me and would never leave but her boyfriend owns her and her body and he is first when it comes to lovemaking. Once a week I get to watch them make love. I admit it is a beautiful site and I am blown away with her sensual lovemaking and my wifes 10 plus orgasms. One up side is they let me video there lovemaking and I do routinely masturbate while watching the videos. My wife also has another day a week where she goes to him straight after work and has dinner and spends the night with him. Her boyfriend is 10 years younger than her and is fit, large cock, really knows how to satisfy a woman and he also tells her that he loves her too. He takes her to sex clubs at least once a month and they have a life with other people that know them as a couple. My wife and I used to have sex at least 4 times a week but since she as taken him, two of our days have been given to him. When we do have sex (twice a week) she is naked and gives me passionate kisses while I masturbate to orgasm. Once in a blue moon, with her boyfriend's suggestion, she lets me enter her. When she has an orgasm with me (very rarely) I ask who she was thinking of and it is always her boyfriend. I do love the brutal honesty and knowing about where I stand and her love for him. I tell her the total honesty is the only way this can work and she has been giving me this. She has told me that on our upcoming vacation to the Bahamas her boyfriend is coming and she will only be making love and sleeping with him for this week. I can still video and clean up. I could never have envisioned her having a relationship like this but my compersion is overwhelming and it works for us.

TDhotwife wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 27, 2025 8:09 am

My wife has fallen deeply in love with her boyfriend of 17 years. She tells me she loves me and would never leave but her boyfriend owns her and her body and he is first when it comes to lovemaking. Once a week I get to watch them make love. I admit it is a beautiful site and I am blown away with her sensual lovemaking and my wifes 10 plus orgasms. One up side is they let me video there lovemaking and I do routinely masturbate while watching the videos. My wife also has another day a week where she goes to him straight after work and has dinner and spends the night with him. Her boyfriend is 10 years younger than her and is fit, large cock, really knows how to satisfy a woman and he also tells her that he loves her too. He takes her to sex clubs at least once a month and they have a life with other people that know them as a couple. My wife and I used to have sex at least 4 times a week but since she as taken him, two of our days have been given to him. When we do have sex (twice a week) she is naked and gives me passionate kisses while I masturbate to orgasm. Once in a blue moon, with her boyfriend's suggestion, she lets me enter her. When she has an orgasm with me (very rarely) I ask who she was thinking of and it is always her boyfriend. I do love the brutal honesty and knowing about where I stand and her love for him. I tell her the total honesty is the only way this can work and she has been giving me this. She has told me that on our upcoming vacation to the Bahamas her boyfriend is coming and she will only be making love and sleeping with him for this week. I can still video and clean up. I could never have envisioned her having a relationship like this but my compersion is overwhelming and it works for us.